This week I had a conversation with someone I am going to call DD. She came to me for a faith and life audit and it became immediately clear that my program was precisely what she had been searching for. The answer to her prayer, if you will. And when I followed up, she said, I am thinking about it. And I want to ask you the same thing I asked her. What are you thinking about? Because here is what I know about DD, and here is what I know about you. You are not confused. You are not truly undecided. You know what the right step is. What you are not sure about is whether you are worthy of taking it.
There is a concept I learned from my dear friend Caro that I come back to again and again. She calls it thinking energy, and it is one of the most dangerous places you can live. Thinking energy is the maybe. The one day. The I am trying. And I want to be honest with you today the way I was with my own son when he told me he was trying to build his business. I threw something on the floor and I said, try to pick it up. You either do it or you do not. Trying is not a step. Deciding is. And the moment you truly decide, you remove every other possibility and you start moving.
What I also know about DD, and what I suspect about many of you listening, is that by serving others, by becoming equipped to help the people assigned to you, you do not just connect to them. You connect to God. And as a beautiful byproduct, you connect to yourself. I did not write my book to heal myself. I wrote it to honor my daughter Fofi and to help those who were grieving. And what I did not see coming was that God was using my obedience to others to heal the wounds in me that I did not even know were still open. That is how this works. You step into purpose for them, and God takes care of you in the process.
So if there is something you have been hearing in your heart, a nudge, a whisper, a recurring thought that tells you this is it, this is your time, I want you to do one thing. Stop thinking about it. Book a call with me at talkwithbetsy.com and let us spend 45 minutes getting you out of your head and into your next step. Success is inevitable for you when you take action. I love you like crazy. See you next week.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
What thinking energy is and why living in the maybe, the one day, and the I am trying is not a neutral place but an active choice to stay stuck, and how to recognize the moment you have crossed from discernment into delay.
Why most people who say they are undecided are not actually confused about what to do. They are quietly unsure whether they are worthy of having it, and how naming that difference is the first step to breaking free from it.
How to use a deep personal value, something that is already non-negotiable in who you are, to create the accountability and meaning that makes following through on hard things not just possible but inevitable.
Why serving others is almost never just about the people you are serving. When you step into purpose for someone else, God uses that obedience to heal the parts of you that you did not even know still needed healing.
How to take the single next step out of thinking energy, not by having all the answers, not by feeling ready, but by deciding, connecting that decision to a meaning bigger than yourself, and then moving before the mind has a chance to talk you back into maybe.
Resources & Links:
Ready to step into your purpose and answer God’s calling to do more? Learn about my programs at FaithAndGrowth.com
If you’re ready to take action, book a call at TalkToBetsy.com
Grab my book, Hurt 2 Hope: Heal the Pain of Grief, Loss, and Adversity: https://a.co/d/awwbAgc
Download the Better with Betsy App and gain 24/7 access to Betsy through her Betsy Bot!
#BetterWithBetsy #Mentalhealing #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #Hurt2Hope #BetsyGuerra #FaithMethod #spirituality #spiritualawakening #spiritualgrowth #spiritualcoach #spiritualhealing #spiritualjourney #wellness #faithbasedcoaching #AnxietyRelief #MentalHealthAwareness #OvercomingOverwhelm #oneness #coaching #personaldevelopment #emotionalbalance #fulfillment
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There is a concept I learned from my dear friend Caro that I come back to again and again. She calls it thinking energy, and it is one of the most dangerous places you can live. Thinking energy is the maybe. The one day. The I am trying. And I want to be honest with you today the way I was with my own son when he told me he was trying to build his business. I threw something on the floor and I said, try to pick it up. You either do it or you do not. Trying is not a step. Deciding is. And the moment you truly decide, you remove every other possibility and you start moving.
What I also know about DD, and what I suspect about many of you listening, is that by serving others, by becoming equipped to help the people assigned to you, you do not just connect to them. You connect to God. And as a beautiful byproduct, you connect to yourself. I did not write my book to heal myself. I wrote it to honor my daughter Fofi and to help those who were grieving. And what I did not see coming was that God was using my obedience to others to heal the wounds in me that I did not even know were still open. That is how this works. You step into purpose for them, and God takes care of you in the process.
So if there is something you have been hearing in your heart, a nudge, a whisper, a recurring thought that tells you this is it, this is your time, I want you to do one thing. Stop thinking about it. Book a call with me at talkwithbetsy.com and let us spend 45 minutes getting you out of your head and into your next step. Success is inevitable for you when you take action. I love you like crazy. See you next week.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
What thinking energy is and why living in the maybe, the one day, and the I am trying is not a neutral place but an active choice to stay stuck, and how to recognize the moment you have crossed from discernment into delay.
Why most people who say they are undecided are not actually confused about what to do. They are quietly unsure whether they are worthy of having it, and how naming that difference is the first step to breaking free from it.
How to use a deep personal value, something that is already non-negotiable in who you are, to create the accountability and meaning that makes following through on hard things not just possible but inevitable.
Why serving others is almost never just about the people you are serving. When you step into purpose for someone else, God uses that obedience to heal the parts of you that you did not even know still needed healing.
How to take the single next step out of thinking energy, not by having all the answers, not by feeling ready, but by deciding, connecting that decision to a meaning bigger than yourself, and then moving before the mind has a chance to talk you back into maybe.
Resources & Links:
Ready to step into your purpose and answer God’s calling to do more? Learn about my programs at FaithAndGrowth.com
If you’re ready to take action, book a call at TalkToBetsy.com
Grab my book, Hurt 2 Hope: Heal the Pain of Grief, Loss, and Adversity: https://a.co/d/awwbAgc
Download the Better with Betsy App and gain 24/7 access to Betsy through her Betsy Bot!
#BetterWithBetsy #Mentalhealing #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #Hurt2Hope #BetsyGuerra #FaithMethod #spirituality #spiritualawakening #spiritualgrowth #spiritualcoach #spiritualhealing #spiritualjourney #wellness #faithbasedcoaching #AnxietyRelief #MentalHealthAwareness #OvercomingOverwhelm #oneness #coaching #personaldevelopment #emotionalbalance #fulfillment
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Follow me on social:
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Betterwithbetsy/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/betterwithbetsy/
Visit me at:
https://hurt2hope.com/
https://betterwithbetsy.com/
https://faithbasedcoachingacademy.com/